Thoughtful conversations with the people of Maine

My advice to them is do it. Don't worry about drawing. Just take a painting class, because painting is really drawing, but it is also figuring out your darkest dark and your lightest light.

The difference is stark between women's confidence and men's confidence. I was teaching coaches how to build a profitable business, and the men, for the most part would say, okay, and they'd go do it, and the women would just sort of spiral in this perpetual, I'm not ready yet.

Don't mistake the inertia of change for a mistake. It doesn't mean that you're not on the path to bigger, brighter things sometimes right after change. It's a little raw, so just sit with it.